Thank you for all your supportive comments on my last post. I'm still struggling; I still feel weak and stupid; but I'm pushing on and trying to not be too morose. My success on that varies. Being in touch with the guy in question again doesn't really seem to be helping much but I also don't seem to be able to tell him to go away.
And checking my bank balance today and discovering a collection company put a $1700 garnishment on my bank account, with no notification, and since the money wasn't actually there they'll likely be going after my paycheck next .... that was just awesome. Especially since this is the week I'm meeting with a bankruptcy attorney to prevent shit like that from happening.
Then I got home today and half my backyard fence has blown down. Hilarious.